Student Response to Sexuality Week Mixed

For many Christian school students, the topic of sexuality can be an uncomfortable one. As a result, the topic is often avoided all together, and students are either left to wonder or become misinformed by the media and their peers. In response to this dilemma, the Center for Student Development organized a series of events October 17^th-21^st in what was known as “Sexuality Week.” The week consisted of discussions on love, managing sexual drives, building a bridge between the Christian and LGBT communities, Christian perspectives on pornography and masturbation, as well as reflections from single and married faculty and staff members on relationships and sexuality and a convocation dedicated to answering students’ questions.

“We will provide a factual, God-honoring, biblically-based understanding of sexuality, with opportunities to ask questions and to dialogue,” said Janice Holton, Dean of Counseling and Student Care, in an email informing students about the week.

The student response was mixed. Many students were neutral about the week, saying, “I just went for the chapel credit.” Others had stronger opinions.

“I think we should have something like this every year,” says Alinne DeOliveira, 20, of Boston, MA. “It’s an opportunity to talk about something that isn’t easily talked about at a Christian college. I think many students are scared that they will be judged.”

One highlight of the week was the Wednesday chapel at which Andrew Marin spoke.

Marin is the president and founder of the Marin Foundation, a non-profit organization dedicated to reconciling and creating understanding between the Christian and LGBT communities. After chapel, students were given the opportunity to further the conversation in an informal lunchtime with Marin in the Lion’s Den.

“As a gay person, I’m often discouraged by the way Christians and LBGT people are so often very wary of and quick to judge one another,” said one student who wishes to remain anonymous. “I thought that Wednesday’s chapel promoted a sense of togetherness between the LBGT community and Christian community, and that’s something I think is so very necessary.”

Some students were less than impressed with the week, finding the discussions to be too open-ended rather than drawing biblical conclusions.

“I think sexuality week overall and the message had no care on speaking on a spiritual level,” said Justine Guirguis, 18, of Milford, MA, “and if there was care for the students, there would have been a stressor on coming to terms with answers and less on pre-proposed reactions of an audience.”